The Problem with Perfectionism

Dentistry is a profession that demands precision. Whenever I watch a gathering of dentists examine and discuss the fine points of a case study I am always aware that these are people who understand the importance of getting details right.

That's probably why I have heard a lot of dentists refer to themselves as perfectionists. I understand what they mean.  When it comes to their work they never want to accept anything less than the best.

However, perfectionism, especially when applied beyond the operatory, can actually be counterproductive. Setting realistic standards and expectations in the real world is the beginning of wisdom.

Since we live in a world of immense complexity and have to cooperate with others who don't necessarily share our passions, demanding perfection in everything is bound to lead to disappointment and frustration. Circumstances and the people around you will often fall short of perfection; it's how you deal with that reality that matters.

A preoccupation with perfection is often used as an excuse not to venture into something new at all. It's too easy to see the things that could go wrong and say, "If it can't be perfect, I would rather not do it." In that sense, a devotion to perfection can be more limiting than inspiring. When I look back at the major turning points in my life and career – starting a business, starting a family, building this facility in Scottsdale – I can laugh now at how "not perfect" things were at the beginning.

This is what we do with anything we are truly passionate about, isn't it? We press forward in the face of all obstacles. We accept that the results may not be perfect today, but we know they will be better tomorrow – and that's good enough for now. This is what growth is all about. The concept of perfection works as an ideal to be pursued. It does not work as a reality to be achieved every day. Perfection is a journey.