friendshipYes, that's me, alongside my good friend Jeff Slovin, the CEO of Sirona Dental Systems, at last Sunday's Super Bowl game.

How I— someone who had never attended a football game in his life—got to be there for the game of the year (some would say the game of a lifetime) is a bit of a story. It's a story about true friendship.

I first met Jeff many years ago when he was new to the dental industry and we hit it off immediately. What started as a good professional relationship quickly grew into a lasting personal friendship as we started to get together from time to time even when business didn't require it.

The Formula to a True Friendship


Have you ever had the kind of friend where it doesn't matter how long it has been since you last saw them, when you get together you instantly re-connect and feel comfortable with each other? Jeff and I have that kind of friendship. He is not a daily presence in my life, but whenever I see him we just seem to pick up where we left off. To me, that is a characteristic of a strong, pure friendship.friendship

Another characteristic of a good friend, of course, is knowing what to say and do during the tough times in life. Last month, Jeff and I had planned to get together and hang out for awhile in the new year. Then my father passed away and those plans had to be shelved as I took off to Vancouver to attend to matters there.

Naturally, that was a pretty emotional time for me, and I have found myself spending a lot of time since then in quiet reflection. I think that's a good thing, but it is also true that there a comes a time in the mourning process when you feel like what you need most of all is an energy boost, to take your mind off deeper matters and just have some fun again.

Jeff must have known this, because he ended up making an incredible gesture of friendship. He had promised his young nephew that he would take him to a Super Bowl game before the boy's 15th birthday. This year he came through on that promise, buying tickets for himself, his nephew, his brother... and his friend Imtiaz, who he knew could use an exciting day out.

And let me tell you, it was exciting. I have been to many hockey and basketball games, but none of those events could have prepared me for this experience. The size of the crowd, the intensity of the fans of both teams, the sense of high stakes, and just the sheer spectacle of the event was electrifying. Even as someone who doesn't follow football, I found myself captivated by it all, right down to those last thrilling moments.

For several hours last Sunday I was able to put aside everything else in life and just feel spectacularly alive and in the moment. It was a perfect day.

Thanks, buddy. I owe you one.

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Comments

Commenter's Profile Image Nevin Virani
February 4th, 2015
Imtiaz, thank you for reminding me of the great friendships I have in my life, starting with the one I have with you, my dear, handsome, bigger-than-life and my one and only brother. What a great reminder of unconditional love, trust, great memories, laughter and how Blessed one is to have friends that love you no matter what. Thank you for being my friend. I love you with all my heart and soul and wish you health happiness and friends like Jeff who make you feel alive and re-energize you when you need it. Thank you Jeff, for loving my brother; your friendship inspired him to write this article and that dear Jeff, inspired me to write this one! 'The light that lights the eye is also the light of the heart....The light that lights the heart is the light of God'...Rumi
Commenter's Profile Image Dave Rossen
February 4th, 2015
That same weekend I went to Denver to visit long time friend who just cares about me like you described your friendship with Jeff I needed that boost time for things going on in my life that just being with a great friend helped. Thanks for sharing
Commenter's Profile Image Janna Levesque
February 4th, 2015
So sorry to hear about your Dad. Very happy you got to go to the game of the century and relieved that you knew which team to cheer for! Go Pats!